Author: mindmosaic
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Why Smart People Still Struggle With Overthinking
Smart people are excellent at solving problems. Unfortunately, the brain does not know when to clock out. Overthinking is not a lack of intelligence. It is intelligence working overtime without a manager. I have seen this often in counselling and education. The sharper the mind, the more angles it sees. What looks like one situation…
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When AI Becomes the Co Therapist in the Room
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A growing shift in therapy today is this: Many clients now walk into sessions after asking AI what is wrong, what trauma they have, what attachment style they are, and which therapy technique should “fix” them. They arrive with labels. They arrive with scripts. They arrive with treatment plans written by a machine that has…
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5 Things Students Learn That Are Not Written Anywhere in the Curriculum
Students learn far more in school than what any syllabus admits. Beyond textbooks and lesson plans, classrooms quietly teach competition, compliance, how long to wait for permission, and what happens when you get things wrong. These invisible lessons shape confidence, curiosity, and decision making long after exams are over. The real curriculum is not just…
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What Biryani Taught Me About Instructional Design
If the ADDIE model were a dish, it would be biryani. Not the quick, rushed kind. I’m talking about the real one. The kind that’s slow-cooked, rich in layers, full of flavor, and leaves you wanting more. Just like a good learning experience should. Let me explain: 🔍 A is for Analyze Before you cook,…
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Inside the Therapy Room
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🛋️ “Oh no, my therapist will think I’m crazy.” I’ve heard this line more times than I can count. Usually followed by a nervous laugh, averted eyes, or a sheepish smile. But here’s the truthAs a psychologist with over a decade of experience, I can assure you I don’t think you’re crazy. I think you’re…
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Anxiety Traffic: When Your Mind Hits a Mental Jam
Have you ever been stuck in traffic? Cars are bumper to bumper. Horns are blaring. The GPS reroutes endlessly. You feel like you’re going nowhere. That’s exactly what anxiety feels like inside your brain. Each thought is a vehicle, racing, honking, trying to push through.But there’s no clear lane. No exits. No space to breathe.…
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Book Review: The Body Keeps the Score
A psychologist reviews The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk — insights, pros, cons, and why it’s a must-read for trauma recovery and therapy.
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Book Recommendation: Feeling Good
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𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐑𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 – 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐍𝐞𝐰 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐲 𝐛𝐲 𝐃𝐫. 𝐃𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐝 𝐃. 𝐁𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐬 Although originally written for depression, the tools in this book are powerful anxiety-busters. Dr. Burns simplifies Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) into everyday language. You learn how your thoughts especially those sneaky negative ones fuel anxiety and more importantly, how to challenge…
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Building a Client-Therapist Relationship Is Like Making A Healthy Mocktail
After 18 years as a psychologist, I’ve realized building a strong relationship with a client is like making a healthy mocktail. Both need the right mix, patience and care. Here’s how: 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭Like a good base in a drink, trust is the foundation. Without it, nothing works. Trust takes time, honesty and a safe…
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Case Study: Navigating Anxiety with a Narcissistic Parent
In therapy, I worked with a client who faced significant anxiety while dealing with a narcissistic parent. Constantly criticized, undermined, and blamed, the client struggled to build self-confidence. The unpredictable cycle of love and rejection from their parent left them feeling emotionally exhausted. Together, we identified patterns in their interactions, helping them understand the dynamics…